The Lifa and Benjamin Show

Yesterday was supposed to be Lifa’s first day of high school. South Africa is still on nationwide lockdown, so his much-anticipated high school debut has been postponed. 

Our teenage social butterfly is stuck at home with an absolutely crazy toddler and a mom who is still not operating at full speed post-Covid.  He has no devices to distract him, and we are spending A LOT of time together. It’s the Lifa and Benjamin show all day, every day. And it’s such a good show. 

These boys are crazy, wonderful, and teaching each other what it means to be family. They stick together, fight over basketballs, and love so hard. 

I would like to welcome you to the “Settling into the New House” episode of the show. Sickness, lockdown, hard work, and new routines have brought out the best in them. 

There is always a reason to praise the Lord. Here are about 27 of my reasons. 

"Benjamin, do a handstand!"

Checking out the new sandbox.

"Jam, get on my back while I do push-ups."

One groaning. The other giggling.

Annnnd he's down.

Lifa wins the patience award for walking dogs and toddlers. I do not.

It's not home till Benjamin's face marks are smushed into the glass.

I don't even try to stop it anymore.

I love everything about this one.

And also: Look at this hair. Do I cut it? How could I cut it? It's beautiful.

Jammer loves his new room with his little reading spot.

Sometimes you just need to take a lay down on the floor with your bro.

"I'm just gonna keep my hand here on your chest."

Praising the Lord during church online.

Again with the dogs and toddler.

Lifa's fave part of the house is the basketball court.

Which means it's also Benjamin's favorite part!

Sorry neighbors.

He thinks he's LeBron.

Look how proud.

They can go and go and go!

Benjamin's preferred ball is the exact one Lifa is using.

Cheering for big bro!

Soccer basketball is also a thing.

This skill is actually to keep your brother away from your ball.

I unleashed everyone in the park in 102 degree weather. They still all ran!