Two Sides of Sunday
A few weeks ago, Benjamin's school was having a career day. He wasn't in the headsapce for lofty career dreams or going to a shop with several costume choices. But he did need quality time with his mom after having a shaky day.
So I put him in a shopping cart and rolled him around a local craft store that carried a small variety of costumes and kids items. We therapeutically walked down empty aisles while he talked, until finally arriving at the costumes.
The selection was slim. Very slim.
Jam was THRILLED. He chose a police hat and gloves. (And a massive South African flag. Because... why not.)
We took them to Chris' office where I explained that, no I had not taken our child to an adult costume store. And no, I couldn't remove the chain from the faux-leather "police hat", and yes, those silky white gloves were obviously for fighting crime and playing rugby.
He proudly wore his police costume to church today.
And he looked a little bit like a stripper cop.
And it's fine.