Have you heard about Words to Live By!?! Read this short blog for everything you need to know about it. Chris and I are passionate about this discipline. I promise… it will change your life! I want to share my 2022 Words to Live By with you to encourage you to write your own! Mine my change over time as I settle into declaring them out loud daily, but here’s what I’m starting with. You can click the button below for a list of declarations that you can use to make your own. I used this list and a few other resources I’ll share below as well. Let me know if you’ve written yours too!

How do you pray?

I don’t mean what do you say, but what is your posture? The Help Club for Moms hosted a 3-day prayer event this week, and I had an opportunity to share some raw and real truths about why I had not been praying triumphantly. I shared some of my story, including how unanswered prayers bruised my heart and hope. But God used even that. And taught me to pray from a place of triumph.

I have polished off two watermelons since Friday. It has been HOT in Cape Town. Saturday was a real scorcher. Unfortunately for my family, there is a force within me telling me to nest that is just as strong as the watermelon-consuming force. Instead of taking it easy in the heat, I did 4 loads of laundry and started deep-cleaning.

I hit my boiling point that afternoon and took the kids to the beach for respite - both from my nesting and the pulsing heat of our house. The other 4 million residents of Cape Town had the same idea and were packed like sardines along the coastline, streets and grassy banks.

Several years ago, Chris and I each wrote our “Words to Live By”. We chose our own lists of God’s truths we wanted to speak over ourselves, family and future every morning. Science and scripture both prove that the direction of your thoughts determines the direction of your life, so why let whims or the world write our realities for us?

The holidays have come and gone. Predictability and knowing what day it is have gone out the window in the last weeks of school holidays. We're relishing late summer evenings and relaxed routines, while looking forward to the structure and new school stationery that makes it feel like the new year has really begun.

It feels like my children's holiday break will never end, and this mama is ready to nest! I loaded my darling boys in the car yesterday and said, "We're going to run errands." Benjamin spent the rest of the day trying to figure out whose house "errands" was and when we'd finally get there. 🤣

This is one of my all-time favorite truths. The power of thoughts and words. They literally shape you - so much more than your circumstances. Do yourself a favor, and listen to this message! Part two will be even better next week!

Who’s making resolutions? Maybe it’s carrying this new little Ladd or dreaming of seeing my mom for the first time in 6+ years when he arrives, but I’m bringing in the new year with some old fashioned nostalgia. Typically, there’s nothing I love more than sitting down with a fresh pack of colorful pens and a goal-setting guide. I dream, plan and pray.
This year, I woke up early to worship, read the Word and call my mom. I made my NaNa’s traditional southern New Year’s Day meal, and I’m just sticking with the important things in 2022. What about you? What’s your 2022 looking like?

Our Creator designed our lifetimes on earth to be marked by seasons, sunrises, and trips around the sun. We all share this reality, whether you feel inspired by turning to a fresh calendar page, bound by seemingly timeless circumstances, or wounded and limping out of 2021. God made time to matter to us, every day and year purposed and imprinted with His relentless love for you. (Psalm 139:16, Psalm 90:12)

We had a wonderful Christmas celebration! It was the first time Chris or I have EVER been to church on Christmas Day - and we’re the pastors now! In America, we grew up attending Christmas Eve services and staying home on Christmas morning for a special family celebration - opening presents at the crack of dawn in your pjs, breakfast afterward, and then playing the day away at home.

We had to re-imagine Christmas for our family this year as we had the honor of hosting our first Christmas morning service as lead pastors at Southpoint Church!

Merry Christmas Eve! I hope your Christmas Day is filled with joy, laughter and wonder. Many are feeling extra strain or pain this holiday season. That's ok too... because it's really not ALL about Christmas. There's more to our Savior than one miracle in a manger or a date in December.

The Omicron variant of Covid-19 is sweeping through South Africa - not very dangerous, but very contagious! Many are traveling and visiting family, so Chris made the call this week to have church online only to protect our volunteers and members. The goal is to keep everyone safe and healthy so we can enjoy Christmas together as a church and with our families!

The boys and I stayed home and watched “Daddy on TV”. Benjamin stood directly in front of the TV for part of it, screaming, “Daddy said Jesus! Daddy said Moses!”…

Eight years ago, my life looked VERY different than it does now. I was a single mom and missionary in a rural area of South Africa. I drove a bright red Condor through townships every day, discipling families and sharing life with them.

I found myself battling for joy during the Christmas season of 2013, determined not to let circumstances prevail, even though the hits kept coming. I wrote JOY with chalk on a big rock outside of the one-room cottage I shared with Lifa and was determined to keep it.

A poem I wrote about a strikingly juxtaposed Christmas Eve I had popped to mind this year and seemed strangely relevant to the reality the whole world has been in for the last two years. I wanted to remember it here with you today. Love you all!

Spoiler Alert: THE WHOLE WORLD.

Insider Secret: One of the reasons Chris chose to do this sermon series was because of the epic turkey video that went along with it. (You can find it at 24:20.) But the OTHER reason he chose this series was because it’s an eye-opener that makes the Christmas story bigger, better and so much more than you might have thought. I think you’re going to love it.

The holidays are here! There are functions, finales, and gatherings galore. We play the songs, make the meals, and wrap the gifts. But what for?

There are many good reasons for the hustle and bustle, and celebratory traditions hold a special place in my heart. This year, God is whispering to me through the jingle-jangle, "Don't miss the miracle."

How many inspiring and life-giving sermons have you heard about death recently? We’ve got one! It really is! Death has touched us all, and no one is exempt from it. Part of death is sad news, part is bad news, but this week Chris shared on the good news about it too. He talked about what Jesus thinks about death and what He did about it. (Spoiler alert: defeated it once and for all!)

My toddler and teenager are both on hair-raising missions to establish their identities. My sons are drawing lines, testing boundaries, and discovering strengths, weaknesses, preferences and purpose within our family system. They are right on track developmentally! People in every stage of life are on that same plight of finding themselves. Feedback from relationships, success, social media, or past experiences often draw the boundary lines of who people are or the worth they believe they behold.

Chris is in the middle of a fascinating series of flipping the “bad words” in church upside down to expose them for what they really are when Jesus enters the picture: Good News! In this week’s message on judgment, he shares very good news on judgment. Can you imagine showing up for Judgment Day, and the only thing your Heavenly Father can see are the good things? Because of Jesus, the sin and not so good things were obliterated on the cross. God can’t even remember them! Jesus did not come to judge you. He came to rescue you! Enjoy this encouraging message.

My heart is still overflowing from Thanksgiving. We had a traditional American Thanksgiving celebration with two South African families on Saturday. Generosity and pumpkin pie flowed freely. I still can't stop smiling!

Abundant feasting, laughter and love is the perfect way to kick off the holiday season. I could easily keep myself busy wrapping presents and planning parties for Christmastime, but that long, slow feast (and all that goes into preparing it) pivot me toward true joy first.

I can’t believe I’ve been hosting Southpoint Prays online every week for almost a year! We’ve gone through highs and lows, lockdowns to varying degrees and a lot of life together as a church this year, and it’s been very powerful to have a weekly checkpoint. Every Thursday at 8pm, we gather live online on Facebook to remember Sunday’s teaching, get refueled by the Holy Spirit, and pray for what’s going on in our lives in realtime.